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Law of Attraction
and
Uncertainty
By Gary
Nordgren
Uncertainty. Does the word make you quiver inside just reading
it?
Or does it take an association on the inside for it to mean anything
to you? As you read this article please keep in the back of your mind what you are thinking, what
uncertainty means to you. How do you define uncertainty and what do you feel about it in your
life?
Each day you are living in a world where uncertainty is a common
place thing, whether you realize it or not.
Each of us searches for consistency in our lives. We search
for adventure. We search for something different and yet we seek to live comfortably - to live with
certainty.
We find people, food, music that we can rely on to make us feel
comfortable and certain. We find people we can depend on. We find things that are reliable for us
to experience. Favorite foods. Favorite songs. Favorite people. We each search for something that
fills us up where we feel inadequate, and yet we want to make it permanent.
Each day you follow a certain path. If you are totally confident
in that path all the time you might just find it a little boring. But some of us do want it a
little boring. A little boring means you have very little to risk. You can be very comfortable when
you risk nothing.
When you have nothing to risk you can find yourself living day
after day digging a life called "a rut." Why is it that so few people are really living their
passions and dreams? Is it the uncertainty of a new path?
Opening yourself up to risk can be harmful to your heart, your
body, your beliefs, your expectations, your limitations and your patterns of habits. The ego or the
status quo of our brain may scream loudly in our thoughts. Staying in a rut is a very comfortable
place to dwell. Unless you want a little excitement and maybe… just possibly a little
fun.
I have been reading about Richard Branson's adventures in creating
his business empire in Business Stripped Bare: Adventures of a Global Entrepreneur and he is
playful, irreverent, with a little tongue in check attitude. Do you want to display these qualities
to but keep yourself in check to be the certain type of person you feel you should be?
I was helping a friend find a mobile back east and was looking at
Virgin Mobile on line (one of Branson's companies) as a prepaid service. My friend lives in the
country and not a ton of services are provided there. When I put in the zip code it came back with
a message that said. "Houston, we've got a problem. Our search indicates that your zip code is
unable to receive service." It made me laugh. He built his company on not taking his businesses or
himself so seriously. So when things don't happen exactly like we want it, Richard's businesses
makes you have a little joy in a world full of seriousness, boringness, and plainness. His
companies stick out. They grow. They risk. They move forward. Sure he has helped create businesses
that didn't work out perfectly and even failed, but he has made a huge impact on his home country
and the world for a very long time.
Richard Branson makes calculated risks. His experience was
reflected in his own life. Based on starting his first paper early on -after he dropped out of
school - he started creating businesses. He took risks. Some bold and incredible. Some seemed
stupid and risky.
Here is a billionaire showing us life is meant to be lived. Sure,
sure he started out with nothing years ago but he took his life and made it what we wanted to. And
Richard still does today.
Now let's look at your life. Are you living your passion? Are you
going towards your dreams? Do you own your own business now and continue creating the next leap for
yourself.
Many people and (and I am sure this doesn't include you) want to
do something new that would require some type of risk but fail to really begin or follow up with
their first decision. Because they find themselves being plowed over by well meaning friends,
family, neighbors, strangers and naysayers telling them why they won't succeed. In fact you won't
succeed but you will fail big time. They will cite the latest poll or statistic, or friends'
failure to you to prove to you that YOU are going to fail the same exact way.
Doesn't it seem like everyone thinks themselves as an expert on
what you are doing even if they haven't done it themselves. Now of course you actually attract
these voices to your life.
"What?" You might be asking. See, it's the uncertainty in your
vibration that brings them in.
See, Law of Attraction works twenty four hours a day 7 days a
week, three hundred and sixty-five days a year. It doesn't stop when you stop consciously thinking
about how you are feeling or experiencing your life. It doesn't care. It just delivers results to
you that make your life what it is on the outside. Now change how you feel or experience your life
on the inside and yes, you're truly a magician! Your life on the outside transforms automatically
over time if you allow those feelings and experiences to be constant, leaving doubt in the past
about not having the desires of your heart!
You have to doubt your doubts and let faith swing in the direction
of your desires and passions and the outcomes you truly want to have in your life. Doubt is also
faith but towards the things you don't want to have happen. You still give the doubts possibilities
just like you do your desires. They both are felt and experienced on the inside. Uncertainty is
also faith in things that might happen or won't happen. You have let go of doubt and uncertainty
and become unattached to the things you don't want to have happen in your life and mentally
rehearse what you'd really like instead.
When you move towards uncertainty - you literally stop cold if you
believe there is a bigger chance of failure in what you are going to do, about to do, or are
already doing.
"Until one is committed, there is hesitancy, the chance to draw
back. Concerning all acts of initiative (and creation), there is one elementary truth, the
ignorance of which kills countless ideas and splendid plans: that the moment one definitely commits
oneself, then Providence moves too.
All sorts of things occur to help one that would never otherwise
have occurred. A whole stream of events issues from the decision, raising in one's favor all manner
of unforeseen incidents and meetings and material assistance, which no man could have dreamed would
have come his way. Whatever you can do, or dream you can do, begin it. Boldness has genius, power,
and magic in it. Begin it now."
W. H. Murray in The Scottish Himalaya Expedition, 1951
"Whatever you can do or dream you can, begin it.
Boldness has
genius, power and magic in it!'"
-Goethe
When you go boldly into something the Law of Attraction not only
supports you in doing it - it starts to move what you go after to you. What you are seeking now is
seeking you too. How fabulous is that?
You having nothing to do but feel bold, feel certain, feel as if
you already posses the thing, the position, the capital, the place, the building, or the desired
thing to have the universe start cooking the electrons in the particles towards that end so that
you get what you want through the fastest way possible.
You must give what you want in your thoughts as possibilities and
also imagine what truly it would be like to feel and experience the desires as real first on the
inside, as already yours. Yes it's weird to think that you have to make a step towards what
you want before the Youniverse can bring it to you, but it is true.
Neville Goddard called it "Bridges of Incidents" happening.
Whether it be one person or one million to help you have what you have felt on the inside as true -
the thing has truly began its run towards you.
Now what happens when you create doubt, fear, or belief that for
some reason what you felt isn't true or couldn't happen because of a number of excuses? You can
name them in the blame game, can't you?
It's my history
It's my age
It's my color
It's my reputation
It's my credit History
It's my family
It's my mother
It's my father
It's my IQ
It's my personality
It's my… now fill in the blank for you… ahh….. Friend, you really
have no excuses now, right?
If you look above at those excuses the Law of Attraction can
overcome every single one if you just allow yourself to accept what you want and to believe anew in
you as having it.
These are conditions not FACTS. There is only one power and this
power runs through you, through me, through us and through every molecule in this universe. It
works always towards what you believe as true.
Excuses are NOT FACTS, they are excuses. Excuses or blame towards
something that is a symptom of a belief believed as true. It is not a fact of truth unless you
believe it to be true. Many a successful person has had only their belief in the things that they
are pursuing while being questioned by others, the environment, the conditions, and themselves and
ultimately they had to decide to cut off any idea of defeat in their own mind.
Defeat is a decision just like success. It all happens right there
in your little ol' noggin. Whether you are nodding up and down and agreeing with this idea or
nodding side to side with a NO, you went through the cranial noggin searching through hundreds of
billions of neurons to check out if you truly believe what I wrote is true for you right this
moment.
So in Law of Attraction uncertainty lends itself to a perpetuating
downhill spiral that has a tendency to continue downward unless of course you make a new decision
about the belief, idea, or symptom.
So right now think of something you definitely feel uncertain
about. It could be the weather tomorrow or the weather next week or how your stocks will perform in
2 weeks. Whatever you pick, go ahead and also study yourself while doing it. Realize how you do
uncertainty.
How does that feel? Now what could you do to get this so you
actually feel more certain it is true? What is your strategy of truth? Whatever it is - you use it
all the time to know what is certain and true and what is uncertain and false.
You have a pattern. Do you say something to yourself or do you
feel something or do you hear something first? What sensation do you have when you are uncertain
about something?
Do you use external validation as a way to truth? If the TV says
it then it must be true? If the news said it then it must be true? Where do you find validation of
truth for you on the outside? Your parents, your friends, or is it an inside job?
Most of use what we believed to be a past truth as a guiding
principle. We let a conviction we held as a younger less experienced emotional youth guide our
decisions. We take a pairing up of two things as facts and keep believing them until our own
biology or our own cells believe it with every fiber of our being.
Now have you found something in your past that you thought was
true but you discovered later on as you got older that it really wasn't true? For me it was a
certain belief about where my power had come from. I believed that my life revolved around a church
I grew up in and thought that I had the things in my life because I was blessed or not blessed
because of my worthiness in keeping the rules or commandments that I learned as a youth. Now for
you, what do you find has changed for you that you thought once was true? Is it as deep a religious
belief or is it a certain diet isn't really good for you? What is not true that you believed as a
youth and operated that way until you had an ah ha or something that opened your eyes to what was
true in front of you?
And how did you usually change to the new belief? It was either
doubt or uncertainty. You had a direct experience where what you had always thought was true was
obviously false in certain circumstances or what you believed stopped working for you and created
uncertainty inside of you.
Sometimes to get to the heart of the matter you must question and
doubt your unquestioned convictions and beliefs. And when you do that your world will rock to its
very foundations. Just remember that creating doubt in your life where unquestioned convictions
have been will definitely create new realities and belief structures that may serve you to become
more power-filled.
Just remember the Law of Attraction as you are doing it. Meaning
this: keep remembering to feel and experience what you desire as yours already, and in time
the Law of Attraction will bring it about to you. So what if you do go and start questioning your
unquestioned convictions and beliefs by asking if they are really true. What if it isn't?
Then have a fall-back of true desires to put in its place so that you attract and bring about a new
foundation of your desires and feel that you are as the operant power of your life and the
creations of your world.
And then to lock in your beliefs you will do the opposite. Could
this be true? What if this where really a possibility for me in my lifetime or maybe even in the
next few weeks?
Uncertainty and doubt is faith. Faith in something not happening
or taking away the possibility about it. Just depends how you use it. If you have uncertainty you
typically have it because you focus back and forth on one or more situations, conditions, or
circumstance. We give the vibration and feeling our insides about too many scenarios being
true or false so nothing really feels solid. Nothing feels right inside. How can it? We alternate
so quickly on opposites that it just confuses us.
This is where intuition can play its role. If you are an observer
about your emotions and thoughts and watch them play out without judgment you can be unattached to
the results. You can make new choices and decisions in the gaps as you do your self
observations.
Time seems to slow down while you observe yourself and you can
revise your intentions on the fly as you create new certainties and create new realities of what is
true for you. Feel from your intuition what direction to go. Learn to hear that spiritual guide
each one of us has by listening to it and following it each time you are prompted.
Be clear. Be ready. Be prepared to unwrap your life like never
before! Decide to have all that you desire. Start with one thing right now. What is it that you
desire most? Have you felt that you already have it? Have you imagined the scenes that surround you
already having it now? Have you come FROM a place that you are observing yourself having it? Have
you put the people in place imaginally that verify that you have what you want? Have you felt and
experienced it from the standpoint of now having it?
If you haven't then do that right now. What would you like to have
there in your world at the end where your desire is totally fulfilled?
Would you be lounging on a yacht in the middle of the ocean? Who
would surround you? Would you like to travel the country or outside of the country you're in? Where
would you go? Who would you see? What would you hear? How would all those elements line up for you?
How would it feel if it was true for you now?
Now just feel it a possibility that it could be true.
Now give it to yourself as yours in your imagined
reality.
Accept it as yours.
Now claim it!
Now experience the moment as yours of having what you
want.
Now feel it to the depths of really making it certain and true for
you.
Now let it go as part of your memories that are now true for
you.
Now live like this has already happened.
Be certain. Be true to your new reality.
Remember Law of Attraction doesn't care if you feel uncertain or
certain. It just delivers to you what you experience on the inside on an ongoing basis. So go ahead
and live from your passions and your dreams. Live from the place that you are a powerful creator
and never let go of having your dreams as real in your life. It is in your control. It is in your
life. It is within your power to act in concert with Law of Attraction to get what you desire. All
of it is just a feeling of certainty that you feel what you want on the inside. Now feeling what
you want and have it manifest as your outside reality!
Gary Nordgren is The Law of Attraction Business Coach. You can
reach him at www.PersistentSuccess.com to
transform your business and your income. He has lead many Tele-Workshops and Tele-Seminars on Law
of Attraction that are in recorded format on www.LOA-U.com . He also creates new Workshops and also Free LIVE
Tele-Seminars www.Persistentsuccess.com
He is the founder of The Neville Project at www.NevilleLectureHall.com You can
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